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Good afternoon. 👋 I would like to share my history of treatment at the Research Institute with Professor Rakhmanov. My name is Olga.
My son is 18 years old. All the time from birth, he had minor deviations, but we associated them with a lot of anesthesia, traumas … looking for any reasons and excuses. But at the age of 16 y.o., we finally realized that something was not right. The child became very aggressive, looked at the floor, was absolutely not fond of anything, did not study, stopped going to school, began to eat a lot, became isolated, he was constantly tormented by obsessions, he could steal money, hit … we began the examination and the verdict of the doctors – mild mental retardation, organic, and disability group 2 (non-working).
Prescribed treatment – a bunch of antipsychotics, psychotropic drugs … and life began with pills. He began to eat and sleep, even more, the aggression became a little less, but probably because his parents began to behave differently and not provoke. In Kyiv, I was looking for institutions, hospitals … anything that would help. But it didn’t help. The constant examinations that we carried out because the pills have serious side effects (up to brain cancer), introduced us to a doctor, a child who was treated by a professor and saw a great result after treatment.
I contacted the reception of the Research Institute, we were invited for a consultation. And they took him for treatment. The first impression for me was ambiguous. I did not understand if this treatment would help my child, for three days I attended a meeting (held at 11 AM every day), listened to stories of mothers and their children, listened to the madhouse smile, and thought, Lord, where did I go 🤦♀️, it could be some kind of sect 🤪🤪🤪 what a “manicure and pedicure”, I have the same problem, just grief …, I have a mess in my head, so many questions and not a single answer, and they tell me about a smile, the weather in the house … 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ And then it dawned on me. There is no pill that cures at once, no.
Wizards and miracles, there is no doctor who can fix everything in a day or two … this is the daily work of parents, family, but rather Mom !!!! And for this, you need Faith in yourself, an accurate understanding of what we are doing and why, clear implementation of the recommendations of doctors, peace of mind. They said you should not use nipples, diapers …NOT USE and not even hesitate. So I had a question with pills, on the third day of treatment, I myself began to reduce the dose. The professor advised me to change the drugs, but I just canceled them. Canceled it completely. We already had the practice of drug withdrawal, but the result, after 4 days, the child was admitted to a psychiatric hospital for a month. Until the doctors were able to help him to a normal state.
For myself, I made the following conclusion. Most importantly, the attitude of the parents. Clear house rules !!! No screams, offenses, … just a smile and understanding, just support. Do not look for the guilty, do not waste time and energy in vain – it is better to pay attention, strength to your husband, children, or yourself. Sometimes resentment and closeness take so much strength and energy.
Mom should love herself, take care of herself and be able to please everyone, caress, … because the true smile is always (no mourning faces), a pedicure, a manicure … a new dress, a skirt … meeting with friends, but not to be sad, but just to be distracted and have fun.
I have learned well that there may be deterioration, they should be, most importantly, not afraid, not to get lost, but to go towards the goal – improvement.
We leave for improvement, with an exact understanding of what we are going and what we want. My son was present every day at the meeting, and one day he said, Mom, this doctor will cure me, he has helped so many children, and so will I !!!
There are no incurable diseases, everything is in our “pot”.
Personal advice to all parents, visit the psychologist Elena Vadimovna who has rich experience, you ask all your questions, describe those situations that torment you, and haunt you, you will definitely get a clear answer to them, advice, and not be afraid to use them. 🔝🔝🔝 They will definitely help you.
I am grateful to everyone. For the understanding, the time that was given to us, the tips … my son promised to try and not let the professor who believed in him. We are waiting for support to show off our achievements. Good luck to everyone 👍
And Our successes for the 1st stage of treatment are such, out of 57 complaints we came with, we leave from 6 !!!!! We leave all the rest in the past. The aggression is gone, we can negotiate, we fulfill requests and advice, stopped swearing 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️, became an assistant, there is a motivation to get better (everything suited him before), there is no food cult, lost 2 kg during treatment (this on the Swedish line, we live in a hotel where the Swedish line is sometimes difficult to resist), finds hobbies, is not afraid to greet people, communicate, … has become kinder and more respectful to others, takes care of his things and himself. The nosebleeds are gone.